# 20 Ways to Be a Better Husband *By James Hills, menwhoblog.com — Updated July 2022* Written by: [James Hills](https://menwhoblog.com/james-hills.html) Last Updated: 16 July 2022 Top BlogHits: 2877Reading time: 03:19 Abraham Lincoln was once put to task to name his greatest motivation in life. The 16th President of the United States of America calmly responded, "When it gets darkest, the stars come out." The distinguished statesman knew too well that the last thing a man could lose was hope. And in his wisdom, he hung on to the belief that there was always light in every dark moment. Wouldn't it be wonderful if all people had the same philosophy towards marriage? That despite the misunderstandings and fights in marriage, there will always be room to make up and live harmoniously as a couple. If you are looking to improve your marriage and become a better husband, this is the best place for you. You might be putting all these efforts alone, and rightly wonder whether they will yield into something tangible. ## Here Are More Than 20 Ways To Be A Better Husband! Applying these 20 ways can make you become a better husband. ***Confront the Problem, Not the Person*** When you have an issue to deal with, you must tackle the matter at hand without touching on your wife's personality. ***Be the First One to Apologize and Forgive*** Both of you are going to mess up anyway. So, in such a case, be the first one to own up and seek forgiveness. ***Your Relationship Should Be A Priority*** If you treat your marriage as a second-grade relationship, it will crumble before your eyes. Give it all the attention it needs. ***Assist with The Household Chores*** Don't make your wife feel like she's in some enslavement kind of marriage. Once in a while, let her rest and help with the household chores. ***Face Your Challenges Head-On*** The more you hide your head in the sand, the more you aggravate the situation. A fast solution to your issues is by facing them head-on. ***Compliment Her*** The little acts of compliment and appreciation can go a long way in building a healthy relationship. Who doesn't want to feel loved and essential anyway? ***Show Love and Loyalty to Your Wife*** Don't let your wife get anxious. Let her know you are committed and loyal to your marriage. ***Focus on The Positives*** It is easy to focus on what you see wrong in your wife. Unfortunately, that could only lead to more problems for your marriage. Instead, pay more attention to the positives in her and focus on them. ***Her Birthday Dates and Other Anniversaries Shouldn't Escape You*** You may not realize that such occasions are quite important to her. Always have them on your calendar. ***Seek Her Opinion on How You May Support Her*** Knowing how you can help her is a sign that you care for your wife and the relationship. ***Learn to Love What She Loves*** Make friends with her friends, and take a genuine interest in what she does. You may not feel like but do them anyway. ***Defend Her*** Your woman will be proud when you stand up for her in public. Defend her from ridicule and insult. ***Give Her Space*** Know when she wants to be alone and when she wants to be with you. ***Show Her You Love Her*** Don't just tell her you to love her. Show her in public and through your deeds that you care. ***Spend Quality Time with Her*** Don't just focus on your TV and hones. Take time to talk about your relationship, without any distraction. ***Be Patient with Your Wife*** Nobody is born perfect. Despite her flaws, she strives to give her time to improve. ***Look Neat and Presentable*** Be presentable and good looking, just for her. Be the handsome man she fell in love with. ***Talk Openly About Your Finances*** Make your wife part of your budget-making process, and let her know your savings plan ***Plan Some Fun*** It isn't just about work all week. Create some time to have fun, and wind away. ***Love Your Wife Unconditionally*** The moment you attach some gains to your love, then that will be the start of its downfall. What if you don't get back what you hope for? **Hey James Hills wants you to share this!**   --- {"html":""} --- ---   Written by: [James Hills](https://menwhoblog.com/james-hills.html) #MenWhoBlog MemberBlog MasterThought Leader James' passion for exploration and sense of duty to his community extends beyond himself. This means he is dedicated to providing a positive role model for other men and especially younger guys that need support so that they can thrive and be future positive contributors to society. 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